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I have never really comprehended what an " IDEAL " relationship is all about ?
This heartfelt note from Timber Hawkeye , Buddhist Bootcamp perhaps summarises how I want most of my relationships....specially the close ones
“Relationships are often misunderstood to be a simple commitment between two people;
a dedication to each other with a sense of belonging to one another.
That kind of limited perspective breeds expectations, possessiveness and disappointment, and it reeks of ownership, greed, ignorance, and selfish desire.
A healthy relationship is an agreement between two people to support one another in their spiritual practice. It is a vow to encourage each other’s dedication, devotion and path, free from attachment or expectations (yet full of caring and compassion).
A healthy relationship is based on unconditional love, not on the need to possess.
Although you put plenty of “heart” into it, you lose nothing by giving love away.
If each person is equally dedicated to inspire, create, awaken, and enrich the lives of others, then there is no hidden agenda.
It is far less important what one receives from the other than what one can give.
Intimacy would suddenly surpass warmth and tenderness to also include patience, vulnerability, honesty, active listening, understanding, connection, and unwavering trust.
There is a healing power inherent in this kind of union, and it is capable of enabling deep transformation for both people. It is an incredible opportunity[…]”
Excerpt From: Hawkeye, Timber. “Buddhist Boot Camp.”
